Author: Karen Putz

  • Touring Ste. Genevieve, Continued


    After we left my Great-grandparent’s house and my Grandma’s house and Mom’s farm, we headed over to see my Mom’s school. We found the site, but no school. All that’s left of the location is the flower garden in the picture above. We headed into downtown and stopped for lunch at Sirro’s, a small restaurant located on historic Merchant Street. Ste. Genevieve is known as the first town that was settled west of the Mississippi in the 1700’s. You can read more at: Historic Ste. Genevieve.

    We stopped at the Church of Ste. Genevieve where my parents got married 60 years ago. It is a beautiful cathedral and quite a large church for a small town.

    On the way to the Mississippi river, we passed by the land where my father lived in town as a young boy. The original house was torn down and another house sits in its place.

    The Mississippi river is not far from town. A ferry runs across it daily to transport cars and passengers to the Illinois side. In 1993, the river flooded the downtown area and several historic buildings had to be restored.

    When my father was a young boy, he swam across the Mississippi with three other boys. One boy did not make it out of the river.

    Our next stop was my parent’s first home on Linn Drive. Over the years, I heard many stories about life on Linn Drive. My four older siblings were raised in that house. It was just a shell when my parents purchased it and they used an outhouse until my father put in a bathroom.

    One day, my Dad decided he was going to add a basement to the house. He rounded up his cousins and friends and began digging under the crawl space. Once the space was large enough to stand in, they added a conveyor to haul the hand-dug dirt to the outside. The day finally came to raise the house and pour concrete. My mom left the house with her sisters–she was too afraid that the house would fall down. When she arrived home, the house was still standing. “I was scared that it would fall in, too!” my Dad chuckled at the memory.

    I got out of the van and decided that I would knock on the door and see if we could get a tour of the house. A guy came to the door and I explained that my parents were the original owners of the house. “Your father is Norm Griffard!” he exclaimed.

    “You know him?”

    “I took over for him when he went on vacation one week,” he explained.

    A small world in Ste. Genevieve.

    We toured the house and my Mom showed me the kitchen cabinets with the original hardware in the kitchen. My father had made those. We went down into the basement. Along the wall was a cement ridge where the old foundation connected with the one my dad added. Here, my Mom explained, was where she stored her canned goods. My Mom is famous for her canning and storing food. I grew up with shelves of homemade canned food and preserves.

    After we left the house on Linn drive, we drove over to my Uncle Francis’ house and finally my Grandfather’s (my Mom’s father) house. By this point, it was time to get them back to the hotel and ready for the surprise to follow.

    To be continued…

  • Matthew’s Cochlear Implant Activation


    Remember Matthew, my friend’s son who received a cochlear implant several weeks ago?

    Yesterday was his activation day and it went rather well. Sue, Matthew and I arrived at Children’s Memorial and we were joined by a Department of Specialized Care for Children representative who wanted to watch the activation. The hospital also provided an interpreter.

    The audiologist placed the implant on Matthew’s head and hooked it up to a laptop. She explained that she was going to “map” the implant so that the sounds would be comfortably low. “Are you ready?” she asked Matthew.

    “I’m ready!”

    At first, Matthew heard nothing. Then his face lit up and he said, “I heard that.” The audiologist asked him to point to a colored chart with responses that ranged from “too soft,” to “too loud.” She was aiming for a “sounds perfect” response on the chart. Within a half hour, she reached a mapping that Matthew was comfortable with.

    “How does it sound?” Sue asked. Matthew explained that the sounds were sort of mechanical. The audiologist explained that over time, the brain would adapt to the sounds and it would improve.

    The audiologist introduced the Ling sounds to Matthew. Ling sounds are “oo, ee, ah, sh, ss, and mm.” She covered her mouth and went through the sounds. Matthew raised his hand on every sound. This is the kid who sometimes couldn’t hear his own name hollered. Sue and I stared at each other–we couldn’t hear two of the Ling sounds.

    Matthew heard them all.

    The audiologist then asked Matthew to repeat the Ling sounds after her. He was able to hear the sounds but not repeat them accurately. It will take time, practice and several more mappings before he can get the full potential of the implant and even then, it remains to be seen how much auditory benefit he will gain.

    Matthew picked out a colorful blue-swirled covering for the magnet and the implant processor to match the one his friend has. Arriving home, Sue texted me, “Matthew listened to music on the way home. He says it sounds better!”

    A similar post can be found at: Matthew’s Activation.

  • Touring Ste. Genevieve

    After we visited my great-grandparent’s house, we drove a few miles to my grandmother’s house. If you recall from the previous post, she was the only tuberculosis survivor in her family and she raised six kids–four of her own and two of her sister’s kids. This house is located right off Highway 61, not far from the Mississippi River.

    Ste. Genevieve has been flooded several times by the mighty river. In 1975, the water came up and Grandma’s house was flooded halfway up the first floor, leaving mud and debris everywhere. The chicken house was flooded nearly to the roof. In 1993, Ste. Genevieve experienced a record high flood and Grandma’s house flooded all the way up to the second floor. The flood swept away the garage, but in the front yard, her cement statue of the Virgin Mary survived every flood.

    A few miles down the road on the other side of Highway 61, we stopped by my Mom’s farm, the place where she was born and grew up. Her cousin now owns the farm and the house has been added on. I can remember visiting the farm when my Mom’s brother owned it in the early 70’s. One night, I got up to go to the bathroom and ran into a nightstand. I hit my eyebrown on the corner of the stand and it began bleeding. I woke up everyone who wasn’t deaf with my screaming. I still have the scar today.

    To the left is my Mom standing next to the copper urn where her mom made apple butter each year. They had a rough life on the farm–getting up at four in the morning to milk the cows and walking miles to pecan trees and blackberry bushes. There was no heat in the bedrooms upstairs and her brothers had to suffer through the cold winters. You know those old stories about “I had to walk a mile to school?” In Mom and Dad’s case, it was several miles away.

  • A Birthday and an Anniversary Celebration


    What a weekend!

    Friday was my youngest son’s birthday. Steven was born ten years ago at home. He had a mess of black hair when he was born, but two short years later, he had a bright mop of blonde. On Friday afternoon, when he arrived home from school, we quickly opened presents and hit the road. We were heading down to Ste. Genevieve, Missouri to celebrate my parent’s 60th anniversary the next day.

    On Saturday morning, we stopped at my cousin’s house to pick up my parents. We planned an entire day of touring Ste. Genevieve and seeing several family homes. My parents had no clue that we had planned a big celebration that night. They thought we were all going to my cousin’s retirement party.


    My dad had arranged for us to meet Delores and Earl, my mom’s cousins, and Francis Bauman who owned the land where my great-grandparent’s home was located. We were deep into the country, traveling down a rough, gravel road. Our first stop was at a small pond. My dad regaled us with a story of how he tossed dynamite into the pond one day and they gathered the fish that rose to the surface.

    We stopped at a tree with large green globe-like balls. My mom explained that it was a walnut tree. The immature green husk emits a yellow dye which turns black and is difficult to remove. Mom shared a story about someone rubbing the walnut fruit on a stomach and ending up with black dye all over.

    Traveling much further down the dusty road, we came upon the house. Walking carefully through the weeds with an eye out for copperheads, we peered through an open door. The floor had sagged through and broken boards were everywhere. It wasn’t safe to walk inside, so I simply poked my camera through the doors and took as many pictures as I could. Two broken rocking chairs, a moonshine bottle and an old stove were all that remained in the house. If you look carefully at the picture, you can see the original wallpaper left on the walls. My Dad’s mother was born in this house along with seven siblings. One by one, they caught tuberculosis, and one by one, they passed away. My grandmother, married at that time, was the only survivor and she raised her sister’s two children along with my father and his three siblings.

    Seeing the house was an eye-opener for my kids. “What did they do all day back then?” my daughter asked. My parents explained what life was like many years ago. As impatient as they were about driving down the winding gravel road, I reminded them that their great-grandmother had to walk that same road or hitch up the wagon to travel to town. The idea that there were no cars to hop into was something they hadn’t really thought about until faced with a house that was over 100 years old.
    Left to right: Francis, my parents, Delores and Earl.

    Stay tuned for more…

  • John Denver Tribute Show Benefits Aspen Camp for the Deaf


    How I wish I could be in Colorado on October 13, 2007! The John Denver Tribute show, Windstar A Voice for the Future concert will be performed that day at 1:00 p.m. and 7:00 p.m. All proceeds will go to support the Windstar Foundation (which John Denver founded) and the Aspen Camp for the Deaf.

    The Windstar Foundation works to save the environment and the Aspen Camp for the Deaf has some wonderful camp programs for deaf and hard of hearing kids.

    I need to win the lottery to fund these dreams of mine. Unfortunately, I don’t play.

  • Following John Denver’s Music–A Trip Down Memory Lane


    Way back in elementary school, I was introduced to John Denver’s music by my sister, Linda. She often played music from the Poems, Prayers and Promises album. Of course, those were the days when we had record players.

    I couldn’t follow the words since I had a poor ability to discriminate words. I could pick out the refrain from Take Me Home, Country Roads and sing along with that.

    Country roads, take me home
    garbled words
    Take me home, country roads

    One day, during music class in school, a teacher handed out the lyrics to several songs. Take Me Home, Country Roads was one of them. I was thrilled to see all of the words to the song in front of me. If I close my eyes today, I can still picture those typed words.

    I was so excited about the lyrics that as soon as I arrived home, I put the record on and began to follow along with the song. I discovered that if I had the lyrics in front of me, I could follow along with each word perfectly. I began to hunger for more lyrics.

    One day, when we were at Sears, I saw a music book with John Denver’s music and lyrics. I begged my Mom to buy it for me. I spent the entire weekend playing his music over and over, following along to the lyrics. Soon, I had memorized the words to every song printed in the book. Once I had the lyrics memorized, I could lose myself in the music and truly enjoy it. Some of the songs on my albums had no corresponding lyrics in the book and I soon stopped listening to them.

    During one trip down to Missouri, I listened to his music on the 8-track. (Yes, I know I’m dating myself frighteningly here!) My Aunt Gertie was along for the ride. Aunt Gertie was quite deaf and had very poor speech. I took her hand and put it over each word as the music blasted in the car. It was the first time anyone had ever shared a song with her and I remember her face filled with joy as she gamely tried to sing along. Aunt Gertie passed away from cancer a short time later.

    As I grew older, the lyrics started to appear on some of John Denver’s albums. He was a real pioneer about including lyrics when many other singers did not. It was easy for me to learn the words to new songs whenever he released a new album that included the lyrics.

    John Denver ended up recording 365 songs and I’ve discovered the lyrics to them all on the World Family of John Denver website. I am learning new songs of his piece by piece.

    I’ve also met some neat John Denver fans through this blog. Every now and then, I’ll get an email or a comment left that says, “I love John Denver’s music too!” Each year, hundreds of people gather at the John Denver Sanctuary in Aspen, Colorado to listen to his music and remember a great singer.

    I won’t be able to attend this year, but I’m making it a goal of mine to attend next year. No other singer has captured my heart through music the same way.

    Photo courtesy of PBS.org–permitted download.

  • Personal Development List of Bloggers–An Impressive List!

    Priscilla Palmer from Personal Development Demands Success has put together an impressive list of bloggers who contribute to personal growth. Priscilla added me to the list and I’m honored to be included.

    What an incredible list of blogs:

    Aaron Potts at Today is That Day

    Adam Alexander at Adam’s Peace

    Adam Kayce at Monk at Work

    Adam Khoo at Adam Khoo’s Philosophies and Investing Insights

    Adebola Oni at Life Lessons

    AgentSully at Life Learning Today

    Al at 7pproductions.com

    Alan Torres at Made to Be Great

    Alex Shalman at AlexShalman.com

    Alexander Kjerulf at The Chief Happiness Officer

    Alexys Fairfield at Unraveling The Spiritual Mystique, and Speak The Speech

    Albert Foong at urbanmonk.net

    Albert Lee at My Journey to Living an Exceptional Life

    Alvaro at Sharp Brains Blog

    Amber at Amber Waves

    Amber at Random Mangus

    Amel at AmelsRealm

    Amie Ragan at Psychology of Clutter

    Amit Sodha at The Power of Choice

    Amy Hedin at There is no Maximum to Human Potential

    Andrea Learned at Learned on Women

    Andrea J. Lee at Money, Meaning, and Beyond

    Andrew Brunelle at Andrew Brunelle.com

    Andy Wibbels at AndyWibbels.com

    Anita Pathik Law at Power of Our Way

    Anmol Mehta at AnmolMetha.com

    Ann at A Nice Place in The Sun

    Anna Farmery at The Engaging Brand

    Antonio Thornton at AntonioThornton.com

    April Groves at Making Life Work For You

    Argancel at C’eclair  (for those who speak french)

    Ariane Benefit at Neat & Simple Living

    Ash aka Mr. Biggs at One Powerful Word

    Ashley Cecil at The Painting Activist

    Ask Lucid at Ask Lucid Spiritual Development

    BK Diva at Bklyn’s Finest

    Barb Lattin at Feels Like Magic

    Barb Melloh at The Law of Attraction Info

    Barbara Curtis at Mommy Life

    Barbara Sliter at Creatorship

    Bea Kunz at Bea’s Beatitudes

    Belle Wong at Abundance Journal

    Ben Casnocha at Ben Casnocha: The Blog

    Ben Yoskovitz at Instigator Blog

    Benjamin at WOWNDADI

    Beth at Butterfly Thoughts

    Beverly Keaton Smith at Embrace Your Gifts and Soar

    Bill Perry at Lucid Blog

    Billy Smith at The Organic Leadership Blog

    Blogfuse at LifeDev

    Bluskygirl at LifeGoddess.com

    Brad Isaac at Achieve It

    Brett Farmiloe, James Whiting, Noah Pollock and Zach Hubbell at Pursue The Passion

    Brian Clark at Copyblogger

    Brian Kim at briankim.net

    Brian Lee at geniustypes.com

    Brightfeathers at this time-this space

    Brooke at Plain Advice

    Bob at everyeveryminute

    Bob Crawford at Bob Crawford Online

    Bolly at Motivational Corner

    Boston Gal at Boston Gal’s Open Wallet

    Byron Katie at Byron Katie.com 

    Cam Beck at ChaosScenario

    Cara Lumen at The Success Magnets With Cara Luman and Your Second Wind Blog

    Cardin Lilly Routh at OptimistLab

    Carlon Haas at Possess Less Exist More

    Carol Skolnick at Soul Surgery

    Catherine Carter at Continuum Wellness

    Cheif Family Officer at Cheif Family Officer

    Chris at The Philosophy of Change

    Chris at One is All and All is One

    Chris Brogan at Chris Brogan.com

    Chris Cade at Spiritual Short Stories

    Chris Cree at SuccessCREEations

    Chris Marshall at Martial Development

    Chris Melton at Soupornuts.com

    Chris Owen at Pink Apple

    Christina Katz at Writer Mama

    Christine Kane at ChristineKane.com

    Christine Valters Painter at Abbey of the Arts

    Christy Z at Totally Fabulous

    Clyde at Feeling Good

    Colin Beavan at No Impact Man

    Colleen Wainwright of Communicatrix

    Conceive, Believe, Achieve at Conceive, Believe, Achieve

    Confessing at 7Confessions

    Cooper at Wonderland or Not

    Corrine Edwards at Personal Growth with Corrine Edwards

    Corey at Cooking With Corey

    Crabby McSlacker at Cranky Fitness

    Craig Harper at Motivational Speaker

    Craze at Crazedreamer’s Thoughts

    Crowsfeet at Living

    Curt Rosengren at Occupational Adventure

    Cyres at Cyres Matters

    Damian Carr at Soul Terminal

    Daniel Roach at Daniel Roach.org

    Daniel Sitter at Idea Sellers

    Danny Kohn at Be Inspired Everyday

    Daria Black at Figmeant Writing Studio and Community

    Darlene Siddons at Spirited Boutique

    Darren Rowse at Problogger.net

    Dave Pollard at How to Save the World

    Dave Schawbel at The Personal Branding Blog

    Dave Schoof at Engaging the Disquiet

    Davers at Language Trainers Blog

    David Allen at The David Allen Company

    David Bohl at Reflections on Balance

    David Finch at David Finch.com

    David Richeson at 360 Degree Success

    David Rogers at How to Have Great Self Confidence

    David Seah at David Seah.com

    David Zinger at Slacker Manager

    Dawn and Ann at Twisted Sister

    Dawn Goldberg at Write Well Me

    Dawn Vinson at Daydreaming on Paper

    Dawud Miracle at dmiracle.com

    Daylle Deanna Schwartz at Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

    Dean Lacono at Law of Attraction for Beginners

    Deb at Mind Body and Solar

    Deb2012 at Fibromaylgia and Wellness

    Debbie Call at Spirit In Gear

    Debbie LaChusa at 10 Step Marketing Collection

    Deborah aka Zephry1 at Climate of Our Future

    Debra at 28 Years Later

    Debra Moorhead at Debra Moorhead.com

    Denise Mosawi at Destineering.com

    Derrick Kwa at Sui Generis

    Desika Nadadur at Desika Nadadur.com 

    Devlyn Steele at Tools To Life Guide

    Diane Cese at Everything Yoga

    Dick Richards at Come Gather Round

    Dominic Tay at Personal Development for Winners

    Don Simkovich at Hey Don

    Donald Latumahina at Life Optimizer

    Donald Trump and others at The Trump Blog

    Donna Karlin at Perspectives

    Donna Steinhorn at Rethinking

    Douglas Eby at Talent Development Resources

    Dr. Charles Parker at The Core Psych Blog

    Dr. Hal at Northstar Mental fitness blog

    Dr. Michael Shea at From Pain to Personal Gain

    Dr. Tim Sharp at The Happiness Institute

    Drew Rozell at Drew Rozell.com

    Dwayne Melancon at Genuine Curiosity

    E Murphy at The Active Life

    Edward Mills at Evolving Times

    Edward Smith at Bright Moment

    Edith Brown at JETEAK PRESS WRITER BLOG

    Edith Yeung at Dream Think Act

  • Deaf Education, Cochlear Implants in the Tribune

    On the front page of the Chicago Tribune is a story about deaf education in Illinois:

    Lending Ears to Learners

    An interesting statistic is that 80 percent of deaf students are now in the mainstream. Thirty years ago, it was the other way around.

    While technological advances have given some deaf children an incredible opportunity to hear, I wonder about the social emotional aspect of so many kids alone. For some kids, they adjust well and have a good group of friends to hang out with. But I know there are others who go through the daily motions and find it difficult to communicate in groups and in noisy situations.

  • Josh Swiller Interview on NPR–A Transcript Will Cost You

    A few weeks ago, I came across Josh Swiller’s article published in the Washington Post. This is a deaf guy who has had quite an interesting life as he shares in his article:

    I split the Ivy scene as soon as I graduated, becoming a forest ranger in the California redwoods and then a Peace Corps volunteer in rural Zambia, and traveling through Africa, Europe and Asia. All in all, I visited or lived in 24 countries and owned every album by Van Morrison by the time I was 27.

    Then, a few years later, I lost what was left of my hearing. After nearly 30 years of high-powered amplification shoved right up my ear canals, the membranes that hold the inner ear fluid had worn out. They couldn’t take sound anymore. Medically speaking, they went kaput. It was 2003, and I was 32, working for a plasterer in New York City. I was on the job, sanding the living room walls of David Bowie’s SoHo penthouse, when someone dropped a bucket and the sound — unbearably loud — knocked me over like a falling brick.

    Swiller has published a book about his life in Africa while serving in the Peace Corps. His book is on my list of “books to read.” My deaf friend, Ed Hudson,(who died in a plane crash) served in the Peace Corps in the 80’s and he shared several stories of his time in the Corps. So I’m looking forward to reading Swiller’s book.

    NPR posted an interview with Swiller and included an excerpt from his book. Unfortunately, to obtain a transcript, one has to cough up $3.95. I’m disappointed that NPR didn’t release the transcript for this interview.

    Josh Swiller Website

    Swiller’s Blog

    Update: My friend Rachel passed on a copy of the transcript (thanks!) and explained that transcripts are available to deaf and hard of hearing persons upon request. According to the NPR website, buried way down in the FAQ section:

    Does NPR offer free transcripts to hearing impaired individuals?

    Yes. If you are hearing impaired and would like to request a transcript of an NPR story or program, please contact NPR Services at 202-513-3232 through a relay operator. NPR will send you the requested transcript via e-mail. You will need the following information:

    The subject of the program segment you are looking for
    The name of the program during which the segment aired
    The date of the program during which the segment aired
    Your first and last name
    Your phone number
    Your e-mail address

    Update #2:

    A group of deaf and hard of hearing adults from AGBell have made numerous calls to NPR to request a transcript release and advocated for easier access to transcripts. Kudos for their advocacy efforts!

    Update #3:

    Henry Kisor, a retired book reviewer puts his stamp of approval on Swiller’s book:

    Deaf in Africa

  • Mailboxes Galore!


    Every once in a while I come across a website that I just have to pass on. In my inbox this morning, I found a website that sells over 1,500 mailboxes: Mailboxixchange.

    We moved into a house with green shutters and a forest green mailbox three years ago. Last year, we painted the shutters a brownish wine color–and the green mailbox sticks out like a sore thumb. Eventually, I would like to replace the mailbox with something more elegant.

    The prices on the mailboxes that I like range from $260 to over $400 but these are mailboxes that I haven’t seen in local stores. One thing that’s hard to find for older homes is mailboxes that attach to the home and this site offers several selections. I can remember my mom having to spray paint our old box because she couldn’t find a replacement locally. Mailboxichange offers free shipping on many of their mailboxes. Unfortunately, I’ll be stuck with the green one for a while, unless the hubby’s lottery tickets pay off someday.

    But at least I know where to shop to get this one!