Author: Karen Putz

  • Deaf or Hard of Hearing–When to Tell A Potential Employer

    When hunting for a job, do you indicate that you are deaf or hard of hearing on your resume or the job application?

    The Wall Street Journal tackled the topic in their article, Finding the Right Way to Disclose a Disability:

    Disclosing a disability is a personal decision but can be beneficial if done right. Only you can decide whether — and when — to tell your new employer about your disability. Disclosing a condition can help protect your legal rights but can also leave you open to discrimination. Still, experts say you’re better off giving management a heads-up.

    Among my deaf and hard of hearing friends, there seems to be a lot of divide on the issue of whether or not to disclose a disability when applying for a job.  “Don’t give the Human Resources department an excuse to dump your resume in the reject pile,” says Lenny Kepil, who works for Tellabs.  When Lenny was laid off from his job at Lucent Technologies a few years ago, it took him several thousand resumes and a few interviews later to land a job back in the same field. 

    Karina Chupina explains the “catch 22” that comes with job hunting in her article, A Look at Education and Employment in Germany:

    Getting a job nearly always poses a plaguing dilemma for the deaf and hard of hearing: whether they should disclose their disability or not when sending their CV or resume to a potential employer. The controversy centers about the fact that the employer cannot reject an applicant on the basis of disability, but practice shows that applicants who have identified themselves as hard of hearing or deaf persons often are rejected. It remains unclear whether there was a biased attitude towards the hearing disability on behalf of the employer, or lack of the requisite skills.

    Howard Rosenblum, a deaf attorney in Chicago, states that the issue is a complicated one.  “It depends on the job that the deaf or hard of hearing applicant is applying for,” he explains.  “If it is a state or federal job, it is often a good idea to disclose a disability because those employers often look for diversity.”

    Howard urges more caution when applying for jobs in the private sector.  “All too often, private companies seem to have this fear of hiring people with disabilities.  Sometimes, when people with disabilities disclose their disabilities on a resume, they do not even get interviews at all.  When they take it off, they may get interviews, but many times they are not hired or called back for second interviews.”

    For deaf or hard of hearing applicants who use interpreters, they face the difficult decision of whether or not to request accommodations for the interview process.  Requesting an interpreter for an interview puts the deaf or hard of hearing person at a disadvantage, because companies can balk at the idea of having to pay for an accommodation during the hiring process.  “I often tell deaf people who want jobs to bring their own interpreter during the hiring process,” says Howard.  “Even though the company is supposed to pay for interpreters by law, bringing your own increases the chances of being hired.”

    Neil McDevitt, a deaf firefighter and Program Director at TDI, suggests putting the information about being deaf or hard of hearing in the cover letter.  “The cover letter gives you a chance to put your best foot forward, so to speak,” he explains.  “If you make it clear that the fact that you’re deaf or hard of hearing has no bearing on your ability to do the job, it will take the doubt out of the employer’s mind.  I’m also of the opinion that a place that makes a fuss about a person being deaf isn’t a place worth wasting your time at in the first place.”

    I personally have done it both ways: cover letters that address being deaf and cover letters that only focus on my skills with no hint of being deaf.   I’ve put down relay numbers and I’ve also put down a friend’s number (they’d take a message and I would call back via relay, using my voice).  I know that there were probably some jobs where my resume never stood a chance due to disclosure but I’ll never know for sure.

    In this day and age, here’s something else to consider– employers are increasingly using web searches to find out information about a potential hire.  Chances are, employers are going to quickly learn information disclosed on the internet, including any mention of a disability. 

    The whole debate of whether or not to include a disability in the job seeking process is a moot point if we don’t have employers who are willing to consider the abilities, not the disabilities of potential hires.

  • Wordless Wednesday–Leap!

    Don't be afraid--leap!
    Don’t be afraid–leap!

    This is a shot of my cousin’s kiddo jumping out of the pontoon on Christie Lake. See more at Wordless Wednesday.

  • My Son, The Football Player


    Early last year, my oldest son David, a sophomore in high school, announced that he wanted to play football.

    Inwardly, I cringed. Football is not a sport that I’m fond of. At least not anymore. I used to love watching football games with the hubby years ago. For several years, I was the hubby’s sounding board as he anguished over his fantasy football draft picks and sought my input on which quarterback to add to his line up. As we added babies number two and three to the mix, I found myself deep into diaper changes and less into men crashing into each other on TV.

    When the oldest was about ten, the hubby found a new recruit into his Fantasy Football line up. David began showing an interest in football after discovering his father animatedly yelling at the TV on Sundays. And Saturdays. And some Thursdays. And of course, on Monday Night Football.

    Woosh. The hubby sucked in Son Number One. Son Number Two joined the hollering fest at the tender age of eight. Every week, from late summer into mid-winter, the boys collaborate with their Dad, discussing the pros and cons of putting in one defense team over another.

    I didn’t mind.

    But then in middle school, the oldest son asked if he could play football for his school.

    I hesitated a bit. Not only did I hate the idea of him bashing into another kid under the guise of a sport– I also had to worry about the possibility of David losing the rest of his hearing due to a rare genetic condition. In my family, several of us became deaf or hard of hearing from hitting our head. My oldest sister was three when she fell, hit her head and became profoundly deaf. My brother was 36-years-old when a wooden beam fell on him at work. He woke up in the hospital two days later with a severe loss. Another sister slipped on a rug and became profoundly deaf. Both my brother and I lost hearing from barefooting (waterskiing on bare feet)–his a mild loss, mine–profound.

    The hubby and I discussed the pros and cons of football and other sports and we decided not to let any of our kids hold back because of this gene. So David played football in middle school for a year. This year, he is playing for the sophomore team on both offense and defense.

    My reluctance isn’t from worrying about losing any of the hearing he has left, I’m more worried about other injuries. In the first game of the year last week, one of the teammates was carried off the field. He has a concussion and temporary paralysis from being hit.

    Do you think I’d be a bad mom if I bribed the kid to stick to Fantasy Football next year?

    Cross-posted at the Chicago Moms Blog.

  • I Want to Live–Captioned Version

    Dear Bill Creswell:

    Thank you.  Thank you.  And thank you, again.

    Back in June, I wrote a post over at Disaboom about how frustrated I was to navigate through You Tube videos without captions.  I shared one of my favorite songs and posted the lyrics in the blog. 

    Along came Bill Creswell.  He left a comment:

    “Don’t forget, I take requests at billcreswell.wordpress.com.  “My tagline is captioning the internet one video at a time” 🙂  I have this one in my  “queue”.

    Time went by and the two of us became busy.  Yesterday, I found a wonderful post over at Bill’s blog– news that You Tube was enabling a captioning feature for users to add captions to their videos:

    You Tube Adds Captioning Feature

    So I left a comment and asked Bill about the John Denver feature and wondered if it was captioned.

    Bill delivered. 

    And so today, I want to share one of my favorite songs with my readers.  It is a John Denver song called, “I Want to Live.” Captioned.

    add your captions on TubeCaption.com

    http://www.tubecaption.com/watch?v=iuB3_HLcFfk&vcId=473

    Thank you, thank you, Bill for all the work you do. It is very much appreciated. May you have a wonderful weekend!

  • Dave Freeman–A Man Halfway to His Goal

    Dave Freeman.

    Does the name ring a bell?

    It didn’t for me.  But yesterday, while reading the Chicago Tribune before dinner, I saw an article titled “Author of Quirky ‘100 Things’ Guide.”

    Dave Freeman co-authored the book, 100 Things to Do Before You Die with Neil Teplica.  In the book, the two of them listed exciting travel events; and together, they had done about half of them. 

    But yesterday, I wasn’t just reading an article– I was reading his obituary.  Dave had slipped and hit his head on a glass ledge in his home.  He was only 47 years old.

    The New York Daily News reported that Freeman “really did live a full life.”

    Freeman had run with the bulls in Spain. He’d hung his boots in an ice hotel in Finland. He stood beside the 400 stainless steel poles that make up the Lightning Field in New Mexico. And he made sure not to miss India‘s Maha Kumbh Mela in 2001, a Hindu pilgrimage that happens only once every 12 years.

    Considering that the book was written in 1999 and that Freeman completed half of the 100 things– I would say that he did indeed, lead a pretty full life.

    US Magazine has a quote shared by Freeman’s father:

    According to his father, Freeman was famous for saying, “‘We’re going to the future. Do you want to come along?’ It always made everybody laugh.”

    How about you?  Are you going to the future?

  • Vote for the New Southwest Airlines Blogger!

    Colleen Wainwright should be Southwest Airline’s official blogger.

    First, let me make it clear that Colleen has not handed over money for me to say this.  However, when she flies into Chicago after becoming the official Southwest Airlines Blogger, I expect that she’s going to take me out for a nice, thick steak at Morton’s Steakhouse. 

    So go view the video and vote.  Colleen has included a transcript for the deaf and hard of hearing viewers:

    COLLEEN: I’m Colleen Wainwright and I’ve got friends all over the country!

    JACK LYONS: I’m from Baltimore and I want to meet Colleen!

    CHRIS ERENETA: I live in Oakland and I want to meet Colleen!

    COLLEEN: That’s right: Internet friends! And they wanna meet me!

    ANGIE & FRIENDS: We want to meet Colleen!

    COLLEEN: That’s why I should be the new Southwest Airlines Blog-O-Spondent.

    (UKULELE MUSIC BEGINS UNDER)

    DAVID ECKOFF: Hey, send Colleen to Atlanta!

    SCOT DUKE: Send Colleen to Dallas!

    JON DEAL: I have been stalking Colleen for years now.

    COLLEEN: Think about it: all those nerds, blogging all about
    Southwest, to all those potential customers?

    PAM SLIM: Fly Colleen to Phoenix.

    MIGNON FOGARTY: Send Colleen to Reno!

    @EffingBoring: Please send Colleen to New York.

    COLLEEN: It’s a PR bonanza!!!!

    PETER SHANKMAN: I run HARO, for God’s sake.

    COLLEEN: 1200 people on Twitter alone. And I got a boyfriend who plays
    the ukelele!

    (CUT TO SHOT OF THE BF PLAYING UKULELE)

    COLLEEN(VO): (OVER SHOTS OF KAREN PUTZ, LAURA MONCUR, A COFFEE MUG)
    Look at all these fine people! Do you want to disappoint them?

    COLLEEN: I mean, come on, it’s like I was born to do this job.

    PETER: Everyone will be happier. I think you should do it.

    CHRIS points to Oakland on his shirt.

    COLLEEN: Come on! Give an old broad a job!

    As you can see from the video, Colleen is perky, peppy, and talented.  Not bad for an old broad.  But Colleen isn’t really an old broad, except when you compare her to young, peppy, skydiving people like Peter Shankman.  And by the way, the HARO owner is in the video and has put his stamp of approval on Colleen’s vote.

    But please, fast forward past the part where you find me asking Southwest Airlines to fly Colleen to Chicago.  Because you see, I don’t like to be on camera.  But because I like Southwest Airlines (seriously, that is one airline that really rocks!) and I really dig Colleen and her snarky writing style, I agreed to put myself on camera.  All because I want all of the Southwest Airline customers to be entertained when Colleen becomes their Official Blogger. 

    So come on people, go vote for Colleen!

  • Mary Martone—A Career in Deaf Education

    Mary Martone is the Director of Early Childhood Education at the Hearing, Speech and Deafness Center in Seattle.  Mary and I met this summer at the Hands & Voices Leadership Workshop where we sat together along with a few other deaf and hard of hearing participants.  I asked Mary to share about her career and some advice she has for parents raising deaf and hard of hearing children today.

    Mary has a B.A. in English with a minor in Psychology from Gallaudet.  After graduation, she worked as a teacher and then four years later, went back to Gallaudet to obtain a Masters in Deaf Education with a specialization in Secondary English.  “I grew up at the American School for the Deaf in Connecticut,” Mary shared.  “So I’m a product of Deaf Education in a residential school.  However, my mother, now deceased, was very instrumental in my literacy skills.  So I have her to thank.” 

    Mary’s career in teaching spans from the east coast to the west coast.  At Gallaudet, she taught remedial English to the students who did not pass freshman English.  After a year, she began teaching English at the Model Secondary School for the Deaf.  “The professional development at MSSD was great and I had a good group of teachers to learn from and interact with,” said Mary.  “I didn’t just teach.  I got involved with the English Department Placement Team, developing the curriculum, the after-school drama productions, was the chair of the department for three years. It was a fantastic experience.”

    After nine years as an English teacher, Mary was ready for something else.  She took a position as the Summer Program Coordinator at the Gallaudet Honors Program, working under Dr. Richard Meisegier.  During the year, she worked as an Academic Advisor for honor students.

    Mary met the man who would become her husband, and he didn’t like living in Washington D.C.  “He called it the concrete jungle,” she said with a chuckle.  “So we moved to Scranton, PA where I was the Assistant Director of Education at the Scranton School for the Deaf.  Then, I moved to Massachusetts and was the Collaboration Specialist for the Gallaudet University Regional Center in Essex, Massachusetts.  After that, I was an Instructional Supervisor at the New Mexico School for the Deaf.  After that, I was the principal at the Governor Baxter School for the Deaf.” 

    I asked Mary to share which job was her best one and she couldn’t pinpoint just one.  “All of my jobs have been good experiences in different ways and contributed to what I’m doing in my current job.  Each job presented its own challenges which added up and contributes to what I’m doing now.  I have challenges with this job as well.  Each job I’ve had, I have learned new things as well.  I love what I’m doing now and I have a fantastic boss.”

    Mary is a mom to three adult children.  “My first stepson is 35 years old and hearing.  He is a machinist who lives in California with his girlfriend and they have two beautiful children, five year old Vanessa and one year old Ian.  My second is hard of hearing and lives with us.  He is a fantastic artist.  He helps around the house and walks our two dogs.

     “My third is Deaf and autistic,” Mary continued. “We adopted her from India when she was six years and 10 months old.  She is now 23 and is doing well in a supportive living home.  We are working on obtaining training for part-time employment, so she can ‘go to the mall and buy clothes’ as she says in her words.”

    Mary’s advice to parents raising deaf and hard of hearing children today: “From my 30 years of being in Deaf Education, the kids who succeed are the ones whose parents have been involved in their education.  Some kids succeed in spite of lack of parent involvement but the majority succeed because of their parents being involved.  Research shows this, too.”

    And Mary has advice for deaf and hard of hearing children who are considering their path in life: “As for my advice for kids, it’s to have fun, work hard, and follow their hearts in choosing their careers.  The rest will fall into place.  Don’t choose a career because someone tells you should.  Choose a career that you love and can commit to.  The universe will make things happen for you.”

  • The Power of Visualization and the Power of a Number

    People are always asking me why the number “22” is so special to me.  Before I explain why, let me ask you this: have you ever had a goal that was so burning bright that you just HAD to accomplish it?

    I started waterskiing when I was nine years old.  My father came home with an old, yellow boat.  Just like that.  Out of the blue.  He didn’t even discuss boat ownership with my mom.  Included with the boat were a pair of wooden water skis and a ski belt.  A belt, mind you.  None of those fancy molded water ski jackets.  Just a floatation belt.

    My father took my mom, sis and me out to a local lake in Indiana one evening.  None of us knew anything about waterskiing.  I don’t think my father even knew much about running a boat, much less pulling a skier.  I strapped on the skis and I was hooked.  I liked waterskiing.

    I was eleven when my parents bought the place on Christie Lake.   Dad got rid of the yellow boat and bought a cute little red boat.  After a few years of waterskiing and learning to slalom, I had a burning desire to learn to barefoot.  I kept watching the guys (including my  brother) zip around the lake on their bare feet.  There weren’t any other girls barefooting on the lake.  I picked up an issue of Waterskiingand discovered that there was a book by John Gillette called Barefooting.  I used my allowance and sent away for the book.

    I read the book from cover to cover.  I also set a goal: that I was going to barefoot by the end of that summer.  I had just turned sixteen that August.

    The first time I tried it, I planted my foot in the water and kicked off the ski.  Wham!  I tried again and again over several days.  I kept slamming into the water.  I decided to try a different method with a kneeboard.  I dragged my Mom to the local boat shop and begged her to buy a kneeboard.  It was $109– a lot of money back then.  I came home and tried out the kneeboard. The first several tries didn’t work.  I was really frustrated.  I went home and felt really discouraged.

    That night, I lay awake trying to figure out why I couldn’t do it.  I closed my eyes and suddenly visualized myself completing each step in the book.  I imagined how great it would feel to have the board drop away and the water beneath my feet.

    The next day was August 22.  The day that I finally learned to barefoot.

    So the number 22 has stayed with me since then.  Not so much because of the accomplishment, but because of the lesson behind it–the power of visualization.  If you can see yourself accomplishing something, you can do it.  I use the number 22 to remind me to stay on track, to visualize what I want to accomplish.

    How about you?  Have you ever used visualization and had it lead to success?  Do you have a special number that reminds you to accomplish something?

  • Wordless Wednesday–Backyard Sunset

    The view from my backyard, right over the fence.

  • Once Upon A Time… I Started Blogging

    On a fine summer day, two years ago in July, I sat down in front of some blogging software. Blogger, it was called. “Why don’t I start my own blog!” I said to myself. I figured it would be nothing more than an online journal where I could entertain my family and my friends.

    Blogger prompted me to select a name to be part of the www.—–.blogspot.com domain. I wanted something unique, something easy to remember and something that would stand out.

    “Putzworld!” I said to myself. “There’s not too many people out there with a last name like Putz!”

    And that’s how www.putzworld.blogspot.com was born.

    Ok, so that wasn’t exactly a brilliant move back then, but you have to admit, it was memorable, wasn’t it? Who forgets a Putz?

    In the last two years, I’ve been having fun with this blog. I’ve been able to share bits and pieces of my life, such as my family’s story of discovering a deaf gene, or how about some waterskiing memories and the fun of raising my kids.   When I had the drive-thru window closed in my face and service denied at the Bolingbrook Steak ‘n Shake, I shared the frustration here on this blog and it spread to many other websites and blogs.

    Along the way, the blog became a little bit of something more. I met so many wonderful people, both online and face-to-face as a result of this blog.  Every morning, I get the chance to Twitter to hundreds of people.  It’s like having a virtual water cooler conversation– something that I don’t normally have access to when conversing in groups without an interpreter.

    The blog opened up some writing opportunities for me. I worked for a writing company for a year, dipping my toes into a whole new kind of writing.  I went to work as a copywriting freelancer for a real estate company, and lasted through just one project and a tiny grammar mistake before I was kindly “let go.”  I still see that real estate company looking for copywriters all the time.

    Last fall, out of the blue, I was contacted by an employee of a new, soon-to-be launched website, Disaboom. Would I come and write for them, they wanted to know. I’ve been writing for Disaboom since they launched and I regularly write feature articles for the site.  Having my own blog also led to writing for Parenting Squad and the Chicago Moms Blog.  My recent article at Chicago Moms Blog, Camp is Over, It’s Back to the Real World, was syndicated in several newspaper websites.  I also have another blog that focuses on deaf and hard of hearing people in different Jobs, Careers and Callings.

    So here it is, two years later and I love writing more than ever and I plan to continue this blog for many more years.   So I’m turning to my readers to learn more about you.  What brings you here?  What keeps you coming back?  Is there something you’d like me to share more of? 

    Let’s talk!