Author: Karen Putz

  • Deaf Mom’s Good Stuff of 2009

    I was going to wrap up 2009 with a round up of posts before it turned 12:01, but I was a little busy fake-cleaning my house for the last-minute New Year’s Eve party.  Better late than never.  But before I amuse you with my posts, take a look at the fun we had saying goodbye to 2009:

    We connected with Natalie from Florida via the Z-340 and had a blast sharing the party with her. It’s hard to believe that yet another year has flown by.

    Here are some of the posts from 2009 that have stood out:

    Chicago Moms Blog, Behind Barbed Wire

    Chicago Moms Blog, Deaf on the Field

    Chicago Moms Blog, Embracing my Deaf Self

    Chicago Moms Blog, Messy Houses (syndicated in newspapers)

    Chicago Moms Blog, The Honor of Attending a Birth (syndicated in newspapers)

    Chicago Moms Blog, Life is too Short to Pout All the Time

    Deaf Mom World, The Older I Get, The More Adventure I Want

    Deaf Mom World, Fashionable Hearing Aids

    Deaf Mom World, Dad Beats Cancer!

    Deaf Mom World, What I Learned from Laughter

    Deaf Mom World, Lessons from a Sea Doo

    Deaf Mom World, Zvrs, The Next-Best Thing to Being There

    Deaf Mom World, Are You In the Deaf/Hard of Hearing Closet?

    Enjoy!

  • Merry Christmas from the Putz Family

    Wishing you a Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from the Putz family!

  • Welcome to the World, Diego Ruben!

    I had the honor of attending the birth of Diego Ruben, who entered this world on Monday evening at 9:40 p.m. in a beautiful homebirth.  Congrats to the Martinez family!

    Diego’s Birth Story: The Honor of Attending a Birth

    Syndicated in newspapers:

    News Observer

    Scramento Bee

    Idaho Statesman

    Fresno Bee

  • Laura Nuccio, Restaurant Manager

     

    I work as a General Manager for Nibbles Play Cafe located in  Wheeling , IL.  It is a restaurant with play areas for kids ages one to seven to come and play while families dine, eat and talk away!!

    A few years after birth,  my parents found out that I had a hearing loss. Doctors back then didn’t think anything was wrong with me. My parents struggled with doctors– saying, “she’s not hearing us and responding.” My mom had german measles while pregnant  with me. Finally after going to kindergarten, the speech therapist said I had a hearing loss.  Boy, did we visit Northwestern so many times!  I’m glad I spent alot of time there learning the speech skill drills over and over.   I can read lips very well for the hearing loss I have and wear a hearing aid. This really helps my career and working with people who can hear.

    My job as a General Manager, I communicate daily with customers,  taking their orders ( remember, I have to try my best to understand the different languages) and it’s not easy to read their lips if they use a language other than English!  I communicate with my employees, my boss and they are all good to me– we get along very well. I use the phone but recently purchased a videophone with VCO built in.   This will make my life so much easier to communicate with the customers on the phone when we plan birthday parties!! I also communicate with different vendors when I need to place orders. I also communicate with children.

    We have deaf kids come to our restaurant and this really makes my day to see them! I am a former Hersey student class of 1981 and have welcomed Hersey’s job co-op program to come and volunteer to work at our place.  This gives them the experience to work in a real world and also having a “deaf” boss working there they really like that, but I try to explain it doesn’t happen everywhere you work!

    Growing up was challenging. You have people looking at you like you are from Mars, you speak funny….until they realize that you are deaf/hard of hearing.  You judge to see if people will accept you or not. You need to stand up for yourself and be strong and say I can do anything that people with normal hearing can do.

    Come and visit us at “NibblesPlayCafe” !!
    www.nibblesplaycafe.com

    my work email is :  laura@nibblesplaycafe.com

  • The Older I Get, The More Adventure I Want

     

    Me, Tracy and Tammy
    Me, Tracy and Tammy

    I’ve got an itch.  I don’t know what it is. 

    Last week, one of my co-workers picked me and another co-worker up from the Tampa airport in a convertible and we zipped along the highway with the wind whipping through.  Along the way to headquarters, the two guys talked about their upcoming plans for the afternoon.  One of them had a Harley and the other was going to rent one.  They were going to ride the hogs around Clearwater and up to St. Petersburg after they dropped me off at headquarters.

    And dang it, I wanted to go with them.  I wanted to ride a motorcycle on a clear Florida day.

    Like I said, I’ve got an itch.  Forget the usual mid-life crisis solution of having an affair.  I don’t want an affair.  I want an adventure.  I’ve done 15 years at home raising my kids and now I want more.  The problem is, I can’t quite figure out what “more” is.  Over the weekend, I met a deaf barefooter down in Florida and I learned about Judy Myers, the 66-year-old gal who took up barefooting in mid-life.  I wanna be like her when I grow up.  So barefooting again is on the list.

    I thought I solved my mid-life crisis by buying a jet ski.  But the problem is, there’s snow on the ground outside right now.  The jet ski is packed away in a shed. 

    When I look back at my youth, I have to blame my Dad for this.  You see, one day, he came home with a boat.  He didn’t even ask my Mom if it was ok.  He just drove home with the yellow boat that was nicknamed “The Bumblebee.”  We took it out to Fox Lake and I learned to water ski in the polluted lake when I was nine. Then he bought mini-bikes.  One of the mini-bikes was missing a cover over the motor.  I remember one day, me and my friend Lisa took off in the mini-bikes up at the lake.  “Watch your legs!” my Dad hollered before we took off.  We were halfway around the lake when I hit a hole and my calf brushed against the spinning motor.  I dripped blood for a good two miles before we arrived back to wash up with the garden hose.  The mini-bikes disappeared shortly after that.  Then Dad came home with two snowmobiles.  Somewhere, down in the basement, is a photo of my brother Kenny taking off from a three-foot snow ramp that we built in the middle of the yard.  I have memories of a caravan of us snowmobiling up to the restaurant by I-94 and having breakfast there.

    Then there were the ATV toys that the Kronewitters brought into the picture.  They had two ATVs and a Dune Buggy.  The very first day that we unloaded the brand-new ATV off the truck, the youngest Kronewitter rode it into a tree and bent the foot rest.  That didn’t stop us. Tammy, Tracy and I would pack a lunch and hit the roads around the lake.  We explored abandoned houses and got lost a couple of times.  We built a dirt ramp in a field and borrowed Tim Brown’s dirt bike to add to the mix.  At one point, I had to go to the bathroom, so I rode the dirt bike home and headed inside.  Mom stopped me at the door.  “Whose motorcycle is that and why are you riding it?”  She was not pleased.

    Fun was the operative word of my childhood.  Tammy, Tracy and I often came up with crazy ideas to pass the time.  We did an all-girl pyramid with me at the top.  We did three of us on two pairs of skis, with me riding in the back binder of each.  We tied ropes around black truck inner tubes which folded practically in half when pulled, but we hung on.  We boat jumped (don’t even ask).  We attempted to jump over each other with kneeboards–which ended right after I knocked Tammy in the head.  We settled for pulling up on the rope and jumping over the rope instead.  And one day, we had a competition with another boat on the lake, to see which boat could pull the most skiers.  We won, with eight.

    Is it any wonder that I’ve got an itch?  And my Dad, he didn’t stop when he got older.  In his late seventies, he bought himself an ATV. 

    I wonder if I can con my Dad into buying a motorcycle this summer?

  • Hearing Folks Can Call Each Other, Why Can’t Deaf/Hard of Hearing Folks?

    “I am really frustrated,” said a customer recently.  “Every time someone calls my Z videophone from a Sorenson VP -200, their number shows up as an 866 number and I can’t call them back.  Hearing people don’t have any problem calling from a Verizon phone to a Sprint phone, so why do we deaf folks have so many problems?”

    Indeed, as a Sales Manager for Zvrs, I shared that same frustration as this customer.  Several times, I would see a missed call from an 866 number and I’d have no way of calling that person back.   The 866 numbers no longer function, except when a caller uses a VP-200 to call another VP-200.  When a person uses a videophone from a different company, the call is automatically routed to a relay interpreter.

    I also learned that Sorenson customers automatically have their 866 numbers displayed as the default setting.  This is the reason why the 866 number is showing up in the caller ID instead of a local number.  However, Sorenson customers can change the way the caller ID number is displayed and set it so that the LOCAL ten-digit number is displayed instead. 

    How to change the 866 number to display the new local number:

    Go to Settings > Personal > User and then select “Local.”

    Fo more information about calling 800/866 numbers, read the two editorials by Dr. Z and You:

    The 800/866 Fiasco

    The 800/866 Fiasco, More Information

    Update:

    The FCC has temporarily reinstated the 800 numbers and ordered the 800 numbers to be put back into the national database so that they can function from one provider to the other.  This means that for the next four months, the 800/866 numbers will connect properly between videophones.

    Ed’s Telecom Alert shares more on this issue: VRS 800 Issue.

  • Zvrs at DeafNation, The Z Sign, and Z4!

    I was browsing through my camera and came across a few photos taken at the Zvrs booth at the recent Deafnation Expo. I first joined Zvrs during last year’s Expo, and this year, I ended up running the booth with the local Z team. We had fun, despite a hectic, very busy day!

    After the clean up, the Z Team took a moment to pose for a picture:

    After dinner, we were walking back to our cars when Mike Aubry spotted a “Z” high up on a building:

    What a cool way to end the day with the Z Team!

    Stay tuned to www.zvrs.com and watch for the release of the upcoming Z4 software! This software can be downloaded to a Mac or PC for FREE– and you can have a three-way conversation with the Z4. Check out the new video for more information on the Z4 (with captions):

  • Move to Florida, Or Not?

    Last week, we had to contemplate a decision of whether to move to Florida so that I could work as a VCO Account Executive or stay put in Chicago:

    At a Career Crossroads.

    Yes, I know I’m going to regret Florida in the middle of a brutal Chicago winter and y’all can razz me about that in mid-February.  But at least summer will come around again and I’ll be here:

  • Fashionable Hearing Aids

    I came across a post this morning, The Shame of Wearing Hearing Aids and it brought back memories.  I was one of those kids who hid a hearing aid under long hair.  It wasn’t until I was in college that I finally wore my hair up and my hearing aid perched for all to see.  Kinda sad, eh?  All those years spent trying to hide something that was basically a part of me– except I didn’t want any part of it.

    I decided to raise my kids with a different attitude about their hearing aids.  From the start, we went with brightly-colored earmolds with swirls and glitter.  I even joined my daughter in getting matching glitter earmolds.  I’m pretty sure I saw my audiologist hold back a gulp when I asked for the blue with glitter when she squeezed the earmold goop into my ear.

    So far, no one has had the guts to tell me that I look foolish sporting glitter at my age.

    Despite my years of preaching about being proud of those two pieces of technology on their ears, my kids had minds of their own– each of them have made decisions about color vs. minimal color.  My 12-year-old recently decided that he had enough of the wild colors and chose clear earmolds at the last fitting.  After years of wearing boring beige hearing aids, the oldest went for a slick black pair with clear earmolds.  It was now my daughter’s turn for new hearing aids and we sat down to go over the colors for a new pair of hearing aids.  Staring at the hearing aid website, I was floored at the color choices.  When I was growing up, it was pretty much beige and black as the choices.

    I was pretty sure she was going to pick out something cool.

    “Look, there’s zebra and giraffe patterns!” I exclaimed.  “And look at this cool blue and whoa– that purple!  Oh and look–they have this cool see-through hearing aid!”

    She picked beige.

    Yes, boring, typical, oh-so-ordinary… beige.

    “Mom, I’m going to be wearing these hearing aids for a couple of years, maybe even into adulthood,” she said.  “Do you really think I want to go to prom with a giraffe pattern or purple– what if it doesn’t match my dress?  Besides, I can change my earmold colors anytime I want.”

    Yeah, she’s got a point there.  Earmolds are $125 a pop.  Hearing aids are nearly five grand.

    “The beige looks nice,” I said.

  • Eddie Runyon, Fraud Investigator

     
    Eddie Runyon works as a Special Investigator for Kentucky Employer’s Mutual Insurance, he investigates potential fraud cases.
    Tell me a bit about yourself.
     
    I grew up in far Eastern Kentucky, attending the Pikeville Independent School system as a mainstreamed student.  I was hard of hearing, had no interpreters or note-takers, or any other accommodations like that (even though IDEA was already a law at the time), no one took the time to share with my parents what accommodations were out there that could have been helpful to me through the educational process.  I’m married to a wonderful wife (Yvette), and we have two children, a daughter (Triniti, age 12) and a son (Brock, age 8) and reside in Pikeville, Ky.,  I’m a graduate of Eastern Kentucky University with 2 degrees, an A.A. in Business and Industrial Security and Loss Prevention, and a B.S. in Loss Prevention Management.  I attended Gallaudet University for one year (1990-91), where I was a member of the university baseball team (teammate of Mark Drolsbaugh).  I currently spend what little free time I have advocating for the deaf and hard of hearing on different issues, am an Executive Board member of the Kentucky Chapter of the National Society of Professional Insurance Investigators (NSPII), a member of the International Association of Special Investigations Units (IASIU), President of the Board of the Pikeville Aquatics Club, previously coached youth sports with the local YMCA, currently a member of the Access to Captioned Movies study group recently formed by the Kentucky Commission on the Deaf and Hard of Hearing, and serve on the Kentucky Relay Service Advisory Board.  I like to stay busy, in other words! Also, I lost the rest of my hearing by about the age of 17, so I’ve been deaf for most of my life.
     
     
    Tell me about your job– how did you get into this job/line of work?
     
    It was almost by accident, to be honest.  For most of my college life, I had bounced around between majors, never seeming to find my “niche”.  One day, I was thumbing through the class schedule as I was preparing for another semester of school at EKU, and the “Loss Prevention” program caught my eye.  My father was a police officer and former Deputy US Marshal, so I had grown up around security most of my life.  I went to talk to an advisor, and he wasn’t very hopeful. He just didn’t think, based on my academic accomplishments at the time, that I had the initiative or drive to do well in that line of work.  I HATE being told I can’t do something, so I signed up anyway.  Needless to say, 2 years later (and 8 consecutive semesters of “Deans List” or better grades), I had my degrees.  While pursuing these degrees, I got a job with a local security company that was looking to hire an investigator to start that branch in their business, focusing on Worker’s Compensation investigations and “general” investigations.  I was fortunate that the owner/President was willing to look past my deafness and hire me based on my desire.  I went on to be a Senior Investigator for him and helped build it into a sustainable branch of their business.  I left there and went into the retail field as a Loss Prevention Manager for Shoe Carnival, and over the course of 5 years with them, rose to the position of Market Loss Prevention Manager, responsible for (at the time) what was their second largest (in terms of sales) market in the company.  I moved on to Lowe’s Home Improvement, starting out as a Loss Prevention Manager for them and went on to be promoted to District Loss Prevention, Safety, and Haz-Mat Manager, responsible for 10 stores, approximately 1500+ employees, and over $450 million in yearly sales, within only 3 years.  I remained in that position for just over 2 years before leaving for my current job so that I would have more family time.  I currently am a Special Investigator for Kentucky Employer’s Mutual Insurance, and I investigate cases in which there may potentially be fraud occurring.
     
    What is the best part of your job?
     
    It is NEVER the same from day to day.  I spend a lot of time in the field, doing video surveillance, but I also spend time on the computer gathering information, doing courthouse research, responding to accident scenes to film and gather information for the company, testifying in depositions, and so on.  It is challenging from day to day, and requires a lot of time-management skills and the ability to multi-task, and wear different “hats” for the company.  One day I may be in court as the face of the company, the next, I’m in anonymity, filming covertly to see if someone is faking or exaggerating an injury, etc.
     
     
    What are some challenges you face on the job?
     
    Definitely, one of the challenges I face, is the fact that I work alone the majority of the time, and in very rural areas.  The lack of sufficient telephonic access for me in times of potential danger is very real.  It is one of the reasons I’m pushing so hard for relay companies to develop and make available to wireless users, a VCO-capable mobile “CAPTEL” (based on the Hamilton Relay Service version that is currently available only for I-Phones with 3G access).  I realize, that as an oral deaf person, that may seem limited in scope on my part, but I always explain to people that the largest majority of the hearing loss community is hard of hearing, and many are oral.  I’m really hoping that becomes available soon, it will be fantastic to have that for my Blackberry!  Also, daily ignorance in the hearing community is still very real.  I can’t tell you how often I have to explain to people what accommodations are needed and required to be provided, etc.  I’ve often been the first, or one of the only deaf people in my field of work everywhere I’ve gone, so I’m used to having to educate people.  But I’m fortunate, the company I work for is FANTASTIC about providing me with whatever I need to succeed.  They understand that the return on investment for accommodations often much more than is paid for by the increased productivity and results I can subsequently bring in as a result of the accommodation(s).
     
    What was it like growing up deaf/hard of hearing?
     
    It was very reclusive for me, really.  I was isolated, I knew no other deaf or hard of hearing people who could serve as a role model for me.  So I didn’t know what I could or could not do in “the real world”, I didn’t even learn sign language until I attended Gallaudet when I was 21!  But, I have FANTASTIC parents who refused to allow me to simply give up on stuff.  I was always being pushed to excel in whatever I did, and it was instilled in me from an early age, that as a hard of hearing/deaf person, I would often have to be twice as good, just to be considered equal.  How true that turned out to be! 
     
    What advice would you give a deaf/hard of hearing person who is looking for a career like yours?
     
    Find a good school (such as EKU, John Jay, etc.) with programs in security, loss prevention, asset protection, etc. and GO FOR IT.  Be willing to work the “scut” jobs when starting out, no one ever starts out at the top, you have to work your way up.  Too often, I meet people who are happy to work part-time because they don’t want to give up SSI, etc.  Often it is because they don’t see the big picture.  I know that is controversial, but it is true.  I make a very nice living now, and yes, I had to sacrifice some in the beginning so that I could work my way into a salary position that actually paid a living wage.  So my advice would be for people to take a big picture view when they start out in this field (or any other field), and set the goal of the position they want to be in in 2, 3 or 4 years, and WORK to make it happen.  Success in any field is not an overnight journey, it requires hard work and sacrifice in the beginning, and it requires willingness to dream big to achieve big.  My favorite saying is “Go hard or go home”.